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Negotiate Better Goals for Yourself!

A recent article in the Academy of Management Review ("Stairways to Heaven: An Interlocking Self-Regulation Model of Negotiation" by Joan F. Brett, et al, 1, 1999) present an intriguing thought about goals. True, the authors are speaking to the issue of negotiations, but their ideas are relevant for anyone in the process of setting goals. And this time of the year (December 2000) is an excellent opportunity to once again consider the "hows" of effective goal setting.

The authors speak about the process of goal discovery in the negotiation process. That is, some goals change as the individual values change or are discovered. For example, you walk into a car dealership with the intention of not spending more than $25,000 for a car. However, your goal shift when the dealer agrees to throw in air conditioning if you purchase a particular car at $26,000.

The point is that goals can be discovered along the process of achieving them.

Here's what the authors of the Management Review article say, 
 

Emphasizing goal discovery as part of the negotiation process shifts the focus on negotiation from how negotiators 'get what they want' to include also how the process of negotiation lead negotiators to 'discover what to want.


It strikes us here at Time Manager international that there is some solid advice relevant to individuals who are in the process of setting goals. Some goals are initially defined in such a way that they only become appropriately "discovered" as we move along the road to their accomplishment.

For example, it's possible that an athlete set a goal to win a certain contest. In the process of competing, however, the medal be lost, and the goal could shift to "winning with grace." Or the athlete be injured in the course of competition and the goal shift to fast recovery to be ready for next season.

As you set your goals for 2001, keep the idea of goal discovery in mind. You end up negotiating yourself to a different set of goals that are more appropriate and in keeping with your current situation. Life is, after all, an evolving process, so there is no reason for our goals to not also be discovered as move along their path.

Janelle Barlow, President
TMI, US
 
 
 
 
 
 

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