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Goal Setting and Change Setting goals is one thing. Carrying them out is another. In a recent book on change, authors Prochaska, Norcross and Diclemente (Changing for Good -- reviewed in this month's Owl Book Corner) offer a number of ideas to carry out change. In short, they offer a host of techniques that will make it more likely you will achieve your goals, whatever they are. Here are some of their suggestions: Take small steps. The Changing for Good authors suggest that preliminary small steps that come before any goal related action make it more likely you will achieve your goal. So, identify a number of small steps and begin to work on them. This is the equivalent of eating an elephant, in Time Manager language. Make a telephone call. Buy a pair of running shoes. Purchase a scale. Search the Web. Set a date. The authors suggest choosing a date to begin your goal within the next month. If you delay too long on starting any change, you are likely to demotivate yourself. Make sure all the preliminary steps are completed before your due date arrives. Go public. Tell others what you are going to do. Increase pressure on yourself by letting others know what you are going to do. Sometimes our willingness to live up to a commitment to others is stronger than our willingness to live up to a commitment to ourselves. Create your own plan of action.
Here's where you really need to listen to yourself. Someone else's action
plan to achieve a goal is their action plan. It's not yours, and because
of that, it probably won't work for you. Spend time figuring out the best
way for you to get where you want to go.
While the Changing for Good ideas are not revolutionary, they are a good reminder that goal achievement and change is possible, but it isn't enough to just write your goal down on a sheet of paper. It's a bit more involved than that! Janelle Barlow, Ph.D.
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